Friday, June 14, 2013

Thoughts on a brother, upon his graduation from college, AKA You Taught Me

My brother graduates from college on Saturday.  And while words cannot fully express how proud I am, I will still attempt a few thoughts on my experience with him.  Congratulations Andrew!  I'm so glad I get to be your sister. Love, love, love you!


Straight up Gangsta!
Still colorful


Feeling grand


You were born into chaos
Yet brought joy
An unexpected surprise
More than could be dreamed;
I didn’t know what it meant to be a sister:
You taught me

Your blue eyes and ever changing hair
Shedding your clothes like a wild animal
Flashes of you smiling, laughing and snuffing
But even then not always so;
I couldn’t understand your withdrawals:
You taught me

A tender heart
So often hurt - so often misunderstood
Stomach aches
Too deep to comprehend;
Unfailing generosity and empathy:
You taught me

You grew and grew
Suddenly one day, taller
I was too busy to really see you
Missed precious time;
Still you gave unmerited love:
You taught me

I remember the call
The fear of loss
The trauma - the panic - the sadness
Never ending anxiety;
I never knew grief before:
You taught me

Slow growth and blooming
Miraculous before my eyes
I gave you up
But saw you resurrected;
God’s immeasurable grace:
You taught me

Standing now
A man before me
I wonder where the child went
Yet catch the twinkle still in your eye;
Strength, compassion, and love:

You taught me

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